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Dear readers, sorry for the lack of updates but here I am again to share some experiences I had over the months.

1.) Friends
Have you ever wondered why close friends suddenly speak behind your back trying to spread false rumours about you? Or have you ever wondered why people in your inner circle never seem to like you whenever you accomplish something?

The answer is the word, "<Jealousy>".

People have this inner tendency to fit us into their moulds of how we should be, how we should speak and how we should act. When we break out of their moulds, they become <Insecure>. They suddenly feel they have lost control of their lives and they begin to feel inferior.

I have to address this issue because there were people whom I was close to who were no longer close to me whenever I achieved something. It's time to be honest to myself. These people are not <True> friends, they give you praises all the time and when you have done yourself proud, they turn their backs on you.

If you have friends who constantly tell you what to do and suddenly become cold to you when you have found yourself and am moving to a higher phase in life, its certainly time to find <New> friends.

When you have done yourself proud, and people are not pleased with you, they are <Insecure> of themselves. All the more you should do yourself proud and answer only to yourself.

Be <Strong> and <Courageous> even if it means having to break off bonds with these people because you deserve <Better> in life. Stop living under others' control and be free. Be free to be what you want to do in life, be free to achieve what you always desired and most of all, be <Truthful> to yourself.

I'll move on to the next topic which is also another experience I had over the months

2.) When You Least Expect
I always had this false assurance that people are who they are on the surface. It was because of this that I had had hurt myself very deeply and badly. I had faith in the wrong people and the wrong contacts.

I had to ask myself, "What am I going to do from here? Who can I trust again?"

The answer is, "When you least expect..."

I had a few friends who told me things I <Needed> to hear.
I had a few friends who did not <Mince> the truth.
I had a few friends who were not <Pretentious> in my time of trouble.

All these when I least expected to even have any hope of moving on from my darkest hours.

Do yourself or rather do myself a favour, keep doing <Good> when others do not you/me, keep showing <Love> and <Care> when others reject you/me, keep believing when people you/me trusted <Broke> that trust.

If you haven't had a <Happy> life, start making one for yourself today.

3.) Always Remind Yourself
That you are beautiful, that you are good, that you can achieve anything you want in life, that you are your own best friend and you deserve to live a happy life.

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