Anger And Forgiveness

Being angry at someone is perfectly normal and is ok provided it is in the boundaries of loving anger. What do i mean? Being angry with a person and wanting revenge is the wrong type of anger. Being angry with a person because of something wrong he/she did is the right type of anger.

Recently, i've been very mad with my grandmother and mother for things they said to me.

I completely do not understand women at all...

But upon thinking about my being angry with them, i remember being taught by my dad about being magnimous and forgiving as God gave each one of us His grace and strength to do so.

Just last night, my dad told me to let go of my anger with my mother and grandmother and be big-hearted. I find it hard and told him i do not have the capacity to do so.

I can choose to continue being angry with them or just let go and forgive them. I mean why make myself so miserable and unhappy thinking all the time about my anger and unhappiness with them. I shall just learn to forgive and forget with God's grace and strength because i know honestly that as a imperfect person, forgiving others comes hard to me.

*I'm a cow, hear me moo...