When a leader tells his members that watching TV is demonic as the TV is wordly.
When a leader tells his members they have to attend every cellgroup meeting/service, if they do not, they do not have a heart for God.
When a leader asks his members why they never attend a service as they want to spend time with their loved ones.
All these are real life examples i encountered when i was in my former Church. Guess i made the right choice by leaving.